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Ten Months

Thursday, July 30, 2009

A message from the SheepDog:

God is good… ALL THE TIME! It has been a little over ten months since my accident, and I wanted to give you an update on what’s happening.

As many of you know, I am now preaching every Sunday. It feels good to share the Word of God with you each week. I am getting stronger every day. I have stated in earlier messages that I have come a long way since my accident, but I still have a long way to go to full recovery. That is still true today.

I had a couple of surgeries in May. The first operation was on my left eye to center it and help improve peripheral vision. Then I had surgery on my right eye, which was sewn partially shut with two surgeries back in October and November to protect my cornea from drying out because my eyelid did not close completely. This time they reversed the two previous surgeries and put a gold weight in my eyelid to help me close my eye. I still must put ointment in my right eye four times a day to prevent my cornea from drying out, and I wear sponge goggles at night to help keep my eye shut while I am sleeping.

These two surgeries have helped my vision tremendously. I am now able to use my prescription eye glasses for the first time. I am still struggling with double vision because both eyes are not in sync with each other.

In addition, I also had surgery on my facial nerves. Because of the length of time that has past since the accident, there was little hope my nerves were going to regenerate in my face. The surgeon cut the 12th h nerve that controls the right side of my tongue and grafted it to the 7th nerve that controls the right side of my face. I was told it would take six months to a year before the results of this surgery would be noticeable. Last week I experienced some movement in the right side of my face for the first time.

In September, I will have another surgery on my right eye to help eliminate the double vision I am still experiencing. All this to say, “God is not finished yet.”

I owe a tremendous debt of gratitude to you all. You have stood with me and my family, prayed with us, supported us in so many ways these last ten months. Your prayers, cards, words of encouragement have sustained us through it all. Pat and I have been blessed by just knowing you have been with on this journey. You have reached out to us in so many ways and expressed love and care. You have truly shown us the love of Christ through your actions. Thank you!

Through this entire experience, we have never doubted God’s presence or provision. Our faith and trust in the Lord has never been greater than it is today. We have grown closer to God, and closer to you as a result of where He has brought us thus far. Because of that, we can claim with the Apostle Paul, “We know that God is always at work for the good of everyone who loves him.” {Rom 8:28, CEV}

God works in all things - not just isolated incidents - for our good. I can also tell you that this does not mean that all that happens to us is good. But it does mean that God s able to turn what happens to us around for our long range good. I had a nurse at elect Specialty Hospital tell me one day, “God is too righteous not to do right, and too wise not to do good.” Good words to live by. I thank God for each of you for how you have ministered to me and my family this past year. “We are more than conquerors through Christ who loves us.” {Rom 8:37}

If you want to send a note to Dad, send it here.

What Do You Get...?

Monday, July 27, 2009

What do you get when you cross Jim Carrey, Robin Williams, Jack Nicholson, John Maxwell, and that precocious little boy in grade school that always threw sand at you on the playground? You get one of my fraternity brothers from American University ... once a party guy ... now a family man ... top educator ... motivational speaker guy ... Dr. Danny Brassell! Can you say the Joel Osteen of Education?

Thanks to the wonders of FaceBook, a few weeks ago I noticed that this ATO brother was coming to Nashville to do what he does best! We hadn't spoken in at least 15 years. We made plans to meet for a bite to eat.

As we sat across from each other at dinner tonight, we laughed at all the good times we had in college. We talked about the curve balls life threw us, as well as the many blessings we've been given. We both agreed that our wives ... and children ... remain our greatest assets.

Danny stumps me during the conversation: "I'm a born again Christian."

"What you talkin' about, Willis?" I chuckle.

The next few hours are just like ... like ... like sitting on a mountain top on a cool summer night as a young kid with your best friend. No school tomorrow. No deadlines tomorrow. No meetings tomorrow. Just a world of ideas and dreams and passions.

How am I going to make a difference in the world? I keep coming back to that question all night long. I heard it growing up. I say it to my kids.

Here's the good news. I had a pen and paper in the car. I stopped on the way home. I pulled over on the side of road. I took notes.

Trust me ... I've got some ideas ... I'll make a difference! Will you?

Dear ... [State Your Name]

Friday, July 10, 2009

Recently, I have been doing a lot of thinking about my lovely wife and five kids ... When do I have time to think about them? ... That's just it! Prior to last week, I have been detached from them due to some major work constraints. Whoever made the "quality time is better than quantity time" mantra is simply wrong! You need both. So ... here is what has been on my mind ...

Dear MyBeloved: You are amazing! I keep saying it. I've said it many times before. One of these days I'm gonna marry you! Well, today, just might be the day. Wanna git hitched? Seriously, I could not have made it through the past few months without you. Your strength. Your encouragement. Your subtlety. Your faith. Your smile. Your support. Your love. Thanks. BTW, Will you marry me?

Dear No.1 a/k/a MyPrincess: Just because I have not written about you here at G&G lately does not mean that I have forgotten about you. I wrote about you at BPCL instead. Have fun at camp this weekend and remember to make a difference in the world!

Dear No.2 a/k/a DillyBar: Dude, you rock! I cannot understand how you ... in less than 2 months ... have gotten more stars on SuperMarioWorld and more bananas on DonkeyKong than I got in four years of college. And despite your brain turning to mush from the video games, you are practicing your reading everyday and you are doing a great job! Remember the moral of the story of "The Grasshopper and the Ants"? I am so proud of you Little D!

Dear No.3 a/k/a AJ: I had a great time on our date last week ... even if Hannah Montana / Miley Cirus was there! And who knew that you could eat a whole tub of popcorn and a gallon of soda by yourself. AJ, it's hard being the middle child (...middle for now at least...) and I want to thank you for sticking with it. There's a reason why we named you Joy!

Dear No.4 a/k/a Faa-fer a/k/a Chee-Chu: Poop goes in the potty! Thanks for all the snuggles this past week. Your beautiful blue eyes melt me. But remember, poop goes in the potty!

Dear No.5 a/k/a "Zeee": Normal babies don't get up at 5:00am. Go to sleep!

Dear World: Thanks to the few of you who keep checking back in with G&G. If you remember anything from these posts over the past year, know that your family and friends are what it is all about on this side of the fence. I'm just one struggling Dad trying to find a good balance between work and home. But I am learning that it has nothing to do with the balancing act ... it has nothing to do with the teeter-totter of back-and-forth ... it has everything to do with living one life! My kids have used many a crayon on a legal brief at home. My kids have slept many a night on the floor of my office. My wife has listened to many a closing and opening argument ... and kept awake. Most of my struggles, though, come when these two worlds collide and I react foolishly. I raise my voice. I dig my heels into the sand. And I try to balance two worlds ... rather than living in one! My questions to you: Do you need to write a "Dear ____" letter? Do you need to tell someone you love them? Do you live in two worlds? Be strong.

Every Now and Then ...

Wednesday, July 01, 2009

... you come across a picture that shows you are teaching them right!

Happy Anniversary Mom and Dad!


How many years have they been married? You guess ...

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